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Of competent professionals before applying or trying any suggested ideas. Behoy.
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Captain David Gallimore welcomes you aboard the Regenerate Show live
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Monday's ten am Pacific on KFOHD Radio at KFOHD dot com.
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We dive into the real messy work of transforming our lives,
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leadership and organizations. Bring your hot mess and confusion. Lead
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with clarity, courage and confidence. Together, let's strengthen our resilience,
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accelerating the health of ourselves, people, plan and profits. Now
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here's your host, Captain Dave, your personal regenerator.
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All aboard, Welcome. I am so thrilled for kicking off
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episode four of Regenerate and our theme today is organizational
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transformation and I'm really blessed to have as our guest
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today Chris Rue. He's a co founder of Parallax Partners
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out of the UK, and he's a known regenerative kind
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of next generation leader and organizational thought leader, consultant and coach,
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and I'm blessed to have him as my business and
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regenerative life and leadership coach since December of twenty twenty four.
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You know, this is going to be a bit of
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a different show than we've had. The last three have
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been more focused on the individual, and with Chris's help,
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we're going to look at the messy middle of transformational
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organizations and especially around leadership in those organizations. Our show's
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promised to you, as you know if you've been here
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with us before, is to have fun. Because when we're laughing,
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we're learning to leave you inspired and to leave you empowered.
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And I will promise you that Chris Rue will not
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let me off the hook without having clarity and at
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least a couple next actions as we delve into organizational transformation.
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So I want to support you. We want to support
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you not just to survive, but to flourish. And I
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invite you to grab some paper, digital or old school paper,
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a pen so that you might be able to review
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a few notes and take some next actions. And so
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I'd like to at this time. Welcome Chris Rue from Wales.
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Chris, thank you very much, said David. It's a real
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pleasure to be here. And yes, I am in the
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wonderful country of Wales. We moved over here.
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I'm not here. Ye, hello, who you were, You're back.
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And the joys of joys of the Welsh weather being
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winter across. We do like our rain over here, so
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it has been throwing it down fairly recently, but it
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is a beautiful country. I'm very blessed to be here,
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and we moved over here as part of our own
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personal transformation. Interestingly enough, so we have lots of time
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to think and regenerate ourselves, so we try to practice
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what we preach.
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Yes, and I'm sure your dog River is just suffering
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mightily with no outdoor adventures and animals to go chase explore.
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Indeed, yes, no, she's exercising my voice because she can
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now run over glorious. I have a great fortune of
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being within the body of a two hundred and fifty
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acre farm, not mine, lie Hast, but we have the
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ability to roam across it, and therefore I am shouting
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across the fields on many an occasion.
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I'm on back.
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She does seem to rather like exploring, But there we
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are no recall isn't too bad on occasion, but there
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we are saying.
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You to have you and Sarah, your wife, who's just
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what a delight get to read her work around kind
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of tutor. And I understand you're quite involved with tutor
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reenactments and tours. It's a fascinating part of English history.
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Yes, well we are somewhat obsessed, maybe a bit of
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strong word, but we do rather enjoy the two. My
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good lady Sarah Morris has written a number of books
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on the subject of Henry eighth and his six wives,
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and she does enjoy the taking people around the wonderful
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locations that we have in the UK. And in fact,
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I just sort of meta through reenacting myself, and I
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do enjoy putting on the costumes and playing various Tudor characters.
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In very truth, I was playing Thomas Cromwell at the
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last week.
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Which was quite quite fun.
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So if I drop into tudories every now and again,
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I do apologize. But my fellow, you are in fine
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Fattle this Fiday.
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Oh fabulous, So you got to play some some darker
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characters in English history.
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Yes, I've misunderstood Thomas Cromwell. He had certainly had, he
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had his enemies. He was a very very capable man,
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but he did put through some very significant changes, and yes,
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get me started on the reformation of the monastery well.
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And of course that period was just blessed with terrific writing,
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Shakespeare among many indeed, indeed.
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And the changes that he wrote about were kind of
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interesting and have stood the test of time, and people
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still refer to them to create color for the life
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of people at that time. Out of his writing as
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well as his humor, some of which is quite dark
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as well, in terms of some of his plays, talking
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about Henry the sixth for example, but a subject of
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many of his conversations. But that's another story really, And
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if I could happily talk for this next hour about
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Tudor re enactment and Tudor history, and you could argue
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that it's one of the earliest reinventions of organizational structure
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that Henry VI eighth actually did. He was the architect
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of many changes.
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That still exist in the UK today.
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And yes, he wasn't popular in certain circles, a certain circles,
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and not least for his treatment of women in one
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sense did but he made some very significant changes to
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the structure of the way that the UK operates.
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Well, let's put that historic reference on pause for just
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a moment, but I would love to come back to it,
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because as we talk about, you know, the different color
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schemes of organizations from red to orange, et cetera, there
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may be some historic references that you want to bring us.
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Yes, well, you're leading us nicely into a conversation about
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teal or next generation leadership and the work of Frederick Laleu,
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who was something of an inspiration to myself and Sarah
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back in twentyeen, which I'm sure we'll come on to, yep.
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So before we do that, I would be remiss if
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our listeners didn't get a chance to get to know
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just maybe a little bit deeper for five or six minutes.
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So sadly, time is never our friend on a fifty
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minute radio show. But what's that one thing Chris, that
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you love to be or do that just gives you
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the most joy in your life.
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If you'd asked me about five years ago, it would
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have been talking about skiing and throwing myself off mountains
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at no other reason than for fun because it's just
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an absolute You can't think about anything else when you're
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looking down a great slope.
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So I do enjoy that immensely.
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But I say five years ago because that was about
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the last summer I went skiing, and having been obsessed
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with making our move to transform ourselves to come to Wales,
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that's not keep you occupied our time.
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But I do enjoy being out in the air.
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I wanted when we moved to be close to a
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beach so that I could enjoy the outside and the outdoors,
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the great outdoors. It does give me great joy and
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walking both with my good lady wife Sarah and the dog,
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and walking out and enjoying the country side and enjoying
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meeting people, which is which is part and possible what
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I've done really all my life essentially.
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Yeah, I mean you're getting to meet new neighbors, new
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ways of living. But is it fair to say it's
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a bit more country or rural versus where you were
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in the UK or where you were in the.
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Life in the Cotswolds, which if you know the UK,
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then the Cotswolds is fairly country as it were, and
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that this is definitely rural Wales, and we are as I.
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Insconced in a wonderful, magical valley, Welsh valley with rivers
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at the bottom, and it's beautiful. So yes, we basically
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spend a lot of our time paddling around in wellies.
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Right now, this is quite cool.
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It's a beautiful, beautiful part of the world.
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But if we were going back to a bit more
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about me from way back when I've always sort of
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not been so much in the town, has been out
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in the country.
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I was actually born in kings Lynn.
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In Norfolk, So for those of you who knew the
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beautiful Norfolk country side, then that's where I came from.
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A beautiful boy they used to call them.
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And it's again a big country area full of tudor history,
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don't get me started. And we used to spend a
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lot of our time going around these things when I
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was a child, which is probably where I got some
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of my historical interests from, and spent many a happy
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day visiting those various sites. But then went off took
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had a career in the pharmaceutical industry for about twenty
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odd years, from carrying a bag all the way up
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to senior management, and I had a choice at one
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point of do I actually stay in the corporate playground
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and be an MD flying backwards and forwards across the
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pond effectively and or at least spending eighty two hundred
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days a year on a plane between various suppliers. Or
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I at the time had a three year old daughter,
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and do I really want to spend more time with her?
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So maybe I should set up a business, which is
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what I did. I was asked to help assist setting
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up a coaching business, so I went and joined a
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particular company.
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Set that up and haven't really looked back since.
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So I've now been coaching longer than I've worked in
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corporate industry. So twenty two January and one was when
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I became a COACHSESS applicating business. So it's twenty four,
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twenty five years now, after twenty odd years of working
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in the farhool industry.
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I know, I know, I look twenty seven do I mean?
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What can I say?
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You started when you were twelve? I get it, that's it.
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So one of the stories that I really appreciated about
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your origin story, Chris, was that you did come from
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a successful corporate experience and for life choice living your values,
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your family. You know, you decided to become an entrepreneur,
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and so you've been successful in pivoting from the corporate
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crazy I like to call it. And as a fellow
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Rord warrior, I know what it's like to be on
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the road one hundred percent. It's it's not your best
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dad energy when you get home after four and a
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half days on the road. So good on you to
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have made commitment to your daughter and your wife and yourself.
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Those are not easy choices because you make really good
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money in the corporate room and and the entrepreneurial world,
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you know it. It's definitely a roller coaster. One of
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the stories that you also shared, which I think might
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be kind of fun for our listeners, is how you
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decided not to go for coaching clients in the pharmaceutical industry,
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but you wanted to prove to yourself that you had
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what it took, that you had some really simple but
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effective modalities like the three sixty. Do you want to
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talk just briefly about kind of that pivot, And because
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I think a number of our listeners are coaches, are
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wont to be coaches, and this might be I mean,
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they're coming from the corporate world, So I thought might
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be kind of a fun personal transformation story. And the
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messy middle of that.
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Well, the messy middle is yeah, I mean it's all
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based around ego, isn't it. So yours truly was sitting
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there with a forty year old individual, thinking, yeah, OK,
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I'm going to make this happen, but how can I
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How can I do that in a manner that will
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give me energy and regenerate myself such that I am
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feeling powerful and engaged in that conversation. And I recalled actually,
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when I first went into the pharmaceutical industry that in vertcoms,
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I had to be convinced about the product that I
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was promoting. I had to fundamentally believe that this was
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the significantly better product than anything else available in the
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market in order that I could put the whole of
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myself behind promoting it and backing it and endorsing it.
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So I wanted to recreate the same sense of you're
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buying me because Chris Rue is the product if you like,
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and if you step out of that corporate crazy and
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you go across the apparent cliff, but it is only
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an apparent one, because of course you have agency you
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can do stuff. So I had to prove to myself
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to say right. In that case, my challenge to myself
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is that I must not get any business out of
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pharmaceutical industry. First, I need to prove the product I myself,
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my ability to deliver feedback and coaching approaches must be